Most marriages survive affairs. But what if yours’ can thrive? Affairs are devastating, but can be a wake up call that can create an opportunity of a more sustainable marriage.

…Whatever skills they were learning in my office felt like they were going out the window. Why? Because you can have all the tools but if you don’t master the first one, you won’t be able to use the others..

Over half of the couples on my schedule right now have one partner with ADHD (and some I suspect). Is it coincidence or is it that ADHD wreaks havoc on marriage? It turns out that ADHD does affect marriages and it does so in very predictable (and harmful) ways.

Couples often come to me with resentment that’s built up over years. I remember one couple that seemed stuck on something that happened years earlier. The husband looked at me clearly exasperated, “I’ve apologized a thousand times, it was years ago, I don’t know what else to do.”

A question I get every day from couples is how to maintain or jump-start intimacy after having kids.